To the proponents of Anti-Male ideologies there is no Non-Toxic maleness and masculinity must die.

Yet again a horrid event brings out all the male-haters and misandrists whom hate men as part of their principles. Every time there is one of these horrid events like a shooting you find both man-hating men and women coming out of the wood work to hate on manhood. They use deceptive practices like calling it toxic-masculinity, but, they mean men as some sort of sex based collective. You cannot say you are just going after some toxic-variant of masculinity without putting forth a non-toxic variety. Yet, I never see a non-toxic form of masculinity proposed by these articles.

Make no mistake it is not just masculinity, but, maleness and manhood itself that the most purist of the toxic masculinity folks are talking about. Case in point that several groups now have thrown gay men under the bus and have told them to sit at the back like pre-civil war Blacks. They want to push them out because gay or not they are men and have in their own words "gay male privilege." All of a sudden just having a Penis automatically means you are at the top of the social hierarchy.

I really do not like the hole people are digging for men these days. The hole digging though has been ongoing under the surface for a long time now. What do these people want from men exactly? Once again I have read article after article, but, none of them have put forth what a "positive" masculinity would be for a modern day man. The truth is what is called toxic masculinity is anything that might be deemed bad for anyone like being a crazed murderer or a predator. These are not "masculinity" as they are not something that derives in anyway from someone being a man or a male. They are if anything toxic humanity available to either of the sexes.

By misinterpreting toxic humanity and the dark side of our nature as male, manhood, manliness, and masculinity it makes it alright to dehumanize and then toss under the bus men of any group based on their sex and/or gender identity. It lets people whom themselves are listening to that darker part of human nature filled with envy, hate and bile to project their own hatred onto the entire of a collective called masculinity and deem it toxic. To push it onto a collective called male and men wish they than let bile flow on without slowing down.

They are using classic threat narrative which was used in the past by some of the most horrid people that existed. The anti-male narrative is very reminiscent of the way Wiemar Germany treated Jews prior to the coming to power of the Nazi's and the putting into action the Holocaust. By demonizing and dehumanizing an entire group of people it makes it ever easier to use immense amounts of violence on them. It makes it easier to force them into social isolation as well in which some amount will die by their own hand.

There is a serious lack of the positive towards men, maleness, manhood and masculinity. By defending masculinity and manhood I do not mean defending being a douche or an actual predator. I mean defending masculine traits in men as being something to be able to affirm and embrace. That does not mean either that non-masculine men, androgynous men or sex/gender atypical men are any less men or a value in life or lack worth. However, being masculine should not be something men are pressured out of being anymore than they should be pressured into being.

The truth is there is no negative in actual masculinity as defined in any dictionary anywhere. Nor anywhere in dictionaries in the past. Masculinity is defined as;

pertaining to or characteristic of a man or men: masculine attire. 2. having qualities traditionally ascribed to men, as strength and boldness.

So, what is wrong with anything in this masculinity? Do you see predatory anywhere in the definition of the term? Do you see abusive in the actual definition? Do you see mass shooting nutcase or sexual deviant? The truth is there is nothing wrong with masculinity. We do not need a new Positive form we need to properly define and defend what is really masculinity VS what the anti-male ideologies preach about it. Every single man that jumps in front of a bullet for someone they love is being masculine. It is a form of protecting the ones you love and protection is one of the many things at the core of classical masculinity. This does not mean women cannot and do not protect others, but, it is classically a masculine arch-type which a woman could also fall into.

Of course, I am for defending men and manhood no matter how one expresses oneself as a man. So, wherever you fall within the myriad of expressions you as a man should not be thrown under the bus. Nor should you be seen as a lesser as a person. The misandry of individuals and groups of individuals that hate men does not care how you express as long as you are unashamed of being a man while expressing it. They push a collectivized original sin based on being born biologically male without being guilty of that fact. They are not against just bad men having personal strength, but, any man having personal strength and self-love.

Men need just the opposite the ability to have self-love and proper self-esteem to be able to be able to realize their objective self-worth in this world. Men need to know they are worthy of pursuing and obtaining their values in life. Our current discourse totally throws under the bus any needs men have for a healthy psychology separate from being seen as disposable, a utility, a walking dildo or a free bodyguard. Manhood no matter what way you express yours being seen as a good thing needs to become a norm in society. This does not mean we will ever get rid of Gynocentricism as there is a good deal of human nature behind that force in us. However, looking at all people through a lens of methodological individualism with their own worth means we have a way of muting the affects somewhat.

Men are good, manhood is good, manliness is good, masculinity is good and manhood expressed in many variance of ways is good. Never be ashamed of being a man and being a male in this world. You have not done anything wrong by simply being born biologically male. Maleness is not toxic, the Y chromosome is not a poison chromosome, and being a man is not a curse. Men need to quit having an internal self hatred of themselves and embrace the fact they are whom they are. There is no reason to dehumanize yourself based on a narrative pushed by those whom want you hating yourself and wracked with guilt. Each man needs to learn to be rationally-self interested and not interested in haters.

Each man out there needs to not base their worth on the outside worlds push towards self hatred. Instead, they need to realize how great they can be and to work to be it. This does not mean to be perfect as we are only walking 5th Apes and not supernatural. Be the best you you can be and not whom the world wants you to be as a man. Men can be and often are amazing people. Men are good and men need to realize this and act on the Angels Of our Better natures. Men are not toxic; they can be and very much are a force for good in this world. Masculinity is not toxic it just is; and it is beautiful and lovely just as it is.

Masculinity is a Gender Identity and not a Performance. Men, masculinity and Modern societies.

I am currently working on my research for the debunking of the latest videos about Toxic and Fragile masculinity. During this research I have come across a disturbing trend. A disturbing trend of Gender and expression being called a performance. The idea that no gender expression is innate to a person. The idea that masculinity is not tied to a man's healthy Gender Identity and expression of his biology. The idea that masculinity and femininity is some sort of cultural construct with and they are not tied to the gender identity of the person. This is not scientifically nor psychologically accurate at all. 

One being masculine is them adhering to being themselves. If you are a masculine man you are being a man. If you are feminine woman you are being a woman. Not that some people do not match these definitions. However, those are the exception and not the norm. Extreme non-conformity is often due to issues with gender identity and not because gender identity is not tied to biological gender for most people. Or it could be due to abnormal processes in the womb. The norm is masculine men and feminine women, even Tomboys are not completely masculine they have a feminine side. 

The same can be said of men as well. All men, even ones with feminine interests will often be masculine at the same time on other metrics of measurement. Most people are Gender Concordant; meaning they match on some metrics conformity to their biological genders universalized evolutionary psychological traits. Even androgynous men still have a masculine side and the same for these same women with their feminine side. The idea that masculinity is a performance that is thought on and then acted out like being on a stage is dangerous to men everywhere. 

It gives license to trying to change then through social engineering. Men, all men regardless of their partners are masculine animals most of the time. Gay gym bunnies are not fairies and they are Kinsey 7 homosexuals. The idea that a whole host of men are not masculine is not true. Non-conforming men are the exception and not the rule. Even in this regard not conforming in some interest or the other is not the same as effeminacy in a man. The fact that someone is not a jock does not make them less masculine. 

Masculinity is the natural order of men; as the old saying goes Mother Nature is a Tyrant and not an Anarchist. By trying to make men fem we are ruining the natural order of Nature itself. Men are masculine biologically for a reason they have a role that way in nature. A lot of the chaos in men's lives these days and women's comes from the modern societal push to rob men of their natural gender identity traits. I would not be surprised of this push is not messing with many a man causing them to have Discordance with their being because they are told to be other than a man. 

If trans people with gender identity disorders react badly to outside people pushing them into an Identiy; CIS people being pushed to be not them would also cause distress. Every time a mother pushes their Son to play with Dolls and not trucks instead of letting them be boys it is telling boys being a boy is bad. Which could then cause distress with the fact they want the masculine toys as they are a boy. Unless your Son or Daughter shows they want to be Non-conforming you should not push it on them. It can cause great harm to the developing child's thought process about themselves. 

There have been tragic experiments in raising boys to be girls. They have ended in suicides or near suicides and it should never have been attempted to begin with. Boys whom had horrid circumcisions and lost their penises or had them mutilated were for a time tried to be turned into girls thanks to the Social Construction theory of gender. Each one has decided to end it all or came close to it because they know they are meant to be men and were messed with from a young age. Masculinity is a Gender Identity it is not a Social Construction or a performance. It is innate, it is biological and evolutionary psychology. It is us! Leave us alone! 

Modern societies need to get back to being able to be proud of the actions of good men. Masculinity personified in a righteous man should be admired. It should not be shameful to use violence in self defense of others. It should not be seen that all Military men are "Empire Scum." It should not be seen that protection and provision for another person is somehow "oppressing them." It should not be seen that men leading are bad providing they are leading to the right place. It should not be seen that masculinity should be scorned. It should be loved and considered to be the necessary thing it is in our nature. 

Masculinity is not fragile, but, strong and tremendous. Courageous and brave, heroic even. It is beautiful and amazing. It is to be all that you can be. To shoot for the stars and not let the clouds fill your head. It is not toxic, but, the antidote to this Pro-Radical Feminist society filled with Misandry and Gynocentrism on acid. Masculinity is the bomb! It rocks! It is King and it is the Pride of the Pack! Love it in yourself men! Embrace and love it! It is Mother Nature's dictates and believe you me she is one crazy ass Bitch you do not want to cross! 

Men need to be able to cultivate their natural masculinity in peace. Also, a tad on traditionalism.

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Continuing the warning about the "Alpha" bullshit online including on YouTube and its very dangerous affects on men.

Recently I did an article on here about the bullshit that passes for being Alpha Male among most of the Interwebz. I stated that the most Alpha thing any man can do is to just be whom they are and do it with self-respect/self-belief and with confidence. 

That to follow others and what they do like a Mantra was akin to being a walking moist robot and not to be acting humanly towards oneself. That to follow other men and what they say you need to do to be attractive to women was ridiculous. I further went on to denounce patterns, or techniques. In other words the entire "game" community and the hogwash it spouts about this or that.

This was a call to any of my readers that they did not need to "follow" some guide some other man puts forth online. Nor some "export" puts forth that claims to be some "Maleness" or "Alpha Guru." A call for all men to realize they are enough and they are worthy. They are humans and not utilitarian robots for some world to use as a tool. That includes to be used to repeat and spread BS told to them by some "PUA Guru," or whatnot. In fact, it was a warning of the opposite view being quite dangerous. 

If you treat yourself as some moist robot that just goes out and repeats what others do. You are not really being yourself. Thus you are being a fake and frankly this is irrational and dangerous. It is also self-destroying for it means being a second-hander and not an independent thinking adult human. You are not being your true self. Not being the real man you are if you are just following others rules for dating or rules for picking-up. Or rules to be "Alpha." Instead of just being whom you are and doing it with the right mindset. The right attitude towards life and others. 

This is why the vast majority of Interwebz Alpha-stuff is complete hogwash. It is trying to tell you that you need to be something other than the man that you are. That you should change to what others want. Whether the men that run the blog or change to cater to women. Either way it is dangerous BS and also self-defeating. A woman can tell if you are faking and are doing a routine. You frankly will either A) look silly and be laughed at or B) look like a complete creep maybe even a predator. 

This goes not just for aiming for relationships or sex as a PUA would talk about. This is about everything you do in life in general. Another person can tell if you are faking and putting on an act. It comes across quite easily and will not get you anywhere other than looking like a douche. This is all wrong and totally backwards. Completely and utterly backwards advice which won't even unlock someone's "Inner Alpha" as advertised. In fact, if such a saying means anything it will do the total opposite. 

I contend that if an "Alpha" is anything it is a man just being himself with everyone around them. Not faking himself or reality in anyway. Living totally in reality around him and acting accordingly. What is the best thing or worst thing to do? Figure it out and act, speak accordingly. However, do not "act" as in act like something and be fake. I mean act as in to take action and speak as in to say what is appropriate and on your mind in the context. Also, do not be a douche I cannot say that enough! (PUA's are the fanboys of true manliness.)

Yet, if you look online all over even on YouTube you will find BS. From the standard PUA tips crap to complete Pseudo-Science bullshit like "Alpha Male Subliminal Mind Reprogramming." (Pro Tip anyone claiming that listening to a repeated recording is "reprogramming you" is scamming you!) You will find all kinds of videos for gullible following men. For sheep that want to just soak up anything that claims it will get them pussy. It is frankly quite irritating to see such shit be associated with Alpha anything. 

Further more the entire concentration of "Alpha Male" as this label or box that you must meet for a woman to find you appealing is also very, very annoying. It makes men seem like they need to be this or that to be a man. That simply by being a biological male that is an adult, having gone through puberty and had that rush of testosterone is not a man. That being a man requires more than that and that "masculinity" is a performance or an "act" men put on. Instead of being a natural and instinctive thing from ones evolutionary psychology. Instead of being within every biological male with a masculine brain. Which pushes men to feel they need to do more than just "be" to "be masculine." 

Which is very dangerous as most men; the majority of men have masculine brains. Thus most men are masculine by nature. This does not mean that every woman will have their panties drop the moment you enter the room. That is not what masculinity is; it is simply a byproduct of being confidently yourself for women that swoon for that attribute. Nor would even that guarantee walking into a room means you will get women wanting you to fuck around. Or to be in a relationship with you; that is a gross misunderstanding of evolutionary psychology. 

This is one of the problems with the whole "Alpha Male" movement within men's periodicals in general. So much of it is presented as if this is all about women. Not only that, but, the placebo that it will make you get any woman you want is incredibly dangerous for people. Being confident does not mean that all the women around you will be interested sexually in you or romantically. It just does not mean that. On top of that it makes being a man about others and their needs. As opposed to what you desire to achieve in life. What you want from a relationship and so forth. 

The truth is that life is not about what women want. Nor what other men want, but, what you individually want and what makes you happy in the long term. What is good for you on this Earth in the long term and not about putting others before yourself. Life is not about being a sacrificial animal to the slaughter nor a human wallet. This is where MGTOW has one up on most all Alpha sites out there. The best thing for a man that wants to live his life is to say "fuck women" unless they treat them right. 

I do not think men need to not interact with women ever, but, MGTOW has a good point. About life of men not being about women and modern masculinity not being about them either. I contend that a modern Alpha Male puts sex, and companionship as something lower than taking care of themselves. Making sure they are healthy, happy and whole just as they are without women. That we men need to love ourselves as healthy, whole people with worth without women present at all. If you are a man whom is not a douche and you are on a dessert Island you are enough and worthy. Women be damned. 

By douche I do not mean someone that is not to women's tastes. I mean someone whom is OK with coercion. I mean someone that is not a nice person regardless of being a man. Someone whom if they had a vagina would also just as much be a vile, evil, scumbag. Luckily, most men are not like this and most men are worthy and enough; nay more than enough in some circumstances. Men need to stop looking at outside second-handed sources for validity of their manhood, masculinity or "Alpha." Instead they need to look inside. This goes for all men regardless of orientation. This is not about acting "straight." 

If a man looks inside and gets in touch with his nature as a man he will see that he is all man. When he becomes mindful he can become aware that he is already masculine enough. Because he is by his very nature by his very DNA/Brain make-up masculine. For he is a biological and psychological; physiological male. Masculinity at its most primal and instinctual is coursing through his mind and veins in a little hormone called testosterone. Which is the masculine hormone! You are masculine enough for you are a man! It courses through your life blood. Regardless of whether you fit every single box in a check list somewhere of every single trait like markings on a jar. 

This also means that in every man... YES every man! Regardless of whether they stick their penis in a vagina, another man's anus or both at a level of primate psychology and instincts in all men! Deep inside they are all masculine, manly and have an Inner Alpha Beast. It does not come out in ways one might think though. Some PUA stuff about Alpha Male traits is true, but, it is only part of the story. Also, non-PUA sites that talk about them are also only part of the truer and larger picture. An Alpha Male is NOT what you think it is! Not at all! 

For one human Alpha Males are way different from Alpha's in other species. Lots of information about alpha's does not take into account the differences between Alpha male humans and other animals. There are Alpha Male Traits, but, they are not what you think they are. Well, at least not totally and people whom you would might never "label" Alpha could be and probably are human "Alpha Males." One of the things that is mistaken as "Alpha Male" is being a douche as explained above. It is about being an asshole and such nonsense. Frankly this is just ludicrous and complete BS. 

One often mistakes Machismo for masculinity and being an asshole mucho macho type as being Alpha, but, this is just not the case. Maybe if you think we are hyenas or something, but, not if you realize we are Primates and that Primates are different then hyenas or other species. Frankly someone would not get into places in this world they wanted to go and be able to thrive if they acted like other species alpha's. It is why people can see through them and often laugh or end up throwing their drinks on them at bars. 

Let us start by the realization that there are certain attributes which can get a man into good places. These places include, but, are not guided by other people's bedrooms. These same traits can make men excel in work, and in life in general. However, let us also add to that these same things in women can do the same things. It can get them up the ladder of success. However, often due to biological and genetic differences women do not as often show them. More than likely due to a lack of the hormone testosterone. 

Let us also zone in onto the fact that as this is due to biology men could "tap" into this in their life, but, that does not mean all men are a collective that does have or even is easily able to gain all these attributes. Lots of things differ between individual men which can factor into these things. Including how traumatized the man is from being victim to external threats that have done harm to the man. Some of these traits do vary widely between individual men and not all men show every single one of them. 

For example; not everyone whom is a man wants to lead or be in a leadership position. Even if they are capable of leading or could conjure up an assertive attitude. At least if they are not predetermined by their innate personality to be more submissive. (Which also does happen sometimes.) So, even though assertiveness is an Alpha human trait other just as innate things as the man's masculinity can affect how he expresses it. 

I think people should take a look at Alpha M.'s video on the Modern Alpha Male as a good starting point on how one can be Alpha and not even know it. I know when I looked and found out that on my good days, on my best days I was falling into being Alpha I was really shocked. Me? An Alpha fucking male? Yep, I am according to his criteria. I am one Awesome Alpha Beast of a man according to him! :) 

The idea that an Alpha Male is a douche that orders everyone around him around. Or that he is the idiot jerk that does not treat others justly. Or that he is Mucho Macho jock guy all of that is complete BS. One could be Alpha and be a jock, but, you are not Alpha because you are a jock. Hell, one could be an Alpha and treat others horribly. It is not the fact that the man is alpha that makes him a dick it is his individual person. One is not the reason for the other this is not some collective everyone is an individual. 

However, one could be a complete Nerded out gaming guru with a Gaming Room and be alpha male. One could be the most unknowing alpha ever and still be one. Which is why the entire idea that men's worth comes from if he is or others see he is an alpha is absurd. All men that are good people are more than enough and worthy of all the great things life has to offer. Even if they are as Beta as fuck they are still a man! Men are humans and good humans are worthy! That is true justice! As well as a truly benevolent view of mankind and life on this planet. 

In the end the whole Alpha VS Beta battles on the Interwebz come down to bullshit. For one person's Beta as fuck might just be behind closed with their partner as Alpha As Fuck in other areas. For example; a "nice guy," could go totally Christian Grey Dominating on their partner in private. Safe, sane and consensual of course. Just because one does not swagger around or walk around firing off "Alpha radar" at people does not mean they are not very manly or "Alpha" in other ways. It just could be that every single man is someone's Alpha. They hold the respect of the Alpha male with someone somewhere within their life. 

After all just as beauty is in the eye of the beholder it is very possible that Alpha-Maleness is in the eyes of those whom see that in the person. A person could go their entire lives and not see what the people in their life that think the world of them see. A great man, a Alpha beast and the world being their oyster within their own little part of the world. Some times we are beautiful and are "the ideal man," the "alpha beast," the "great guy." Just as we are, but, we are too blind to ourselves to see. This is why I worry about the push to do this or that to be alpha. The push that men need to "prove their masculinity and manliness." As part of trying to make men better. 

Men are good as they are, they do not need to change and they do not need to "get better." Most men are good people and are not bad people. They might not be perfect, but, there is no perfect. However, they can be perfectly whom they are and whom their primal instincts intend them to be. Which is beautiful for masculinity in its most rawest form is the most beautiful thing. Which includes protecting and providing for those WHOM those individual men DEEM just in having from them. Not all other altruistically, but, those justified as being respected enough. The male of our species is a beautiful thing and it needs to be appreciated once more. Male Suicide rates are the most in your face evidence that men need to be told how beautiful they are just as they are.  

Women need to start helping to lessen the "empathy gap."

For those unaware there is a term going around the Interwebz and the manosphere called "the empathy gap." The idea that there is a gap between women and men when it comes to empathy. That women have their own selves as a primary. They have in-group preferences towards other women, but, lack empathy for what men go through. Which is something that one can see easily in this world. Thus the growing MGTOW and broader Men's Human Rights movements. 

The gap is real and one sees it a lot when they are a man. Women will seem empathetic at first, but, as soon as you need them to be the shoulder to lean on for you they will not care. They will rant about how you need to listen to their feelings and treat you like dirt. I have experienced this with pretty much any woman I have dated in the past. Tell them your needs and they do not give a fuck about you.

This is what has gotten me so considering going MGTOW and shrugging off women like the strike from "Atlas Shrugged." It is not easy, however, I like any man that likes women have to face my evolutionary psychology. That as a bisexual man I LOVE the opposite sex, LOVE in all capitals. It is not as some think MGTOW do not hate women. Many of us love women whom we have respect with and those NAWALT Unicorns when we find them. 

What we find disgusting is the way most women around treat most men around. With a lack of empathy for their issues. A lack of understanding what it means to be a man and what they go through in life. A lack of caring if a man is harmed, abused, emasculated, or otherwise treated like shit by women just for being a man. A lack of caring that men are considered monsters and women their victims. 

Men are not cared for when something horrible happens to them. One is not seen as fully human when you are a man. One sees it all the time; give someone a male victim and a female one only the female one will be thought of. Blame it on our Evo-Psychology that many women cling to their in group bias.Women need to start clinging to their evolved reason instead and help close the empathy gap with men. If they do not more and more men will say fuck you and just stop associating with women. 

 

If man needs help he is not a man? Fuck you all that think men are only utilities!

Today I was watching Steven Crowder; a show I usually highly enjoy despite not always agreeing with it. In the middle of a perfectly good episode with the likes of Dr. Christina Hoff Summers I ended up finding a Gynocentric bullshit segment about men. Steven seems to think if you need help and cannot take care of yourself it removes your mancard.

What a bunch of fucking nonsense. A man does not lose his masculinity if he needs help from someone else. Sometimes people need a helping hand. Just because one should strive to be independent does not mean in temporary times of trouble they lose their gender. Just because a man is in need of help. Just because he cannot be a provider for some reason does not mean he is not a man.

Men are not removed of their mancard based on their ability or non-ability to take care of others. One does not stop being a man due to not being able to afford to provide for others. A man needs to look after themselves first. Sometimes they might need help in looking after themselves and that does not make their manhood worth less. Does Steven and people like him think the 90% of homeless that are men are not men?

You do not lose your balls and cock because you have moments of vulnerability. Men are humans; we are naked upright standing apes. We are not invulnerable Supermen from Krypton. We are just as human as women are and the idea that not always being strong is emasculating is bullshit. You do not lose your mancard just because you are not always sitting with 100s in your bank. Or if you do not know how to fire off a weapon (protector and provider often goes together).

Men are not utilities we are humans. We are not wallets we are humans. We are not moist robots we are human beings. I will say it again; men are human fucking beings you Gynocentric fucktards. That do not see men as anymore than providers and protectors of women. Devoid of individual needs, merits and worth. Men 's rights are human rights now get used too it! You pieces of unsympathetic shit!

You are enough! You are worthy and of value! I am enough, worthy and of value! The world is filled with value men that people are blind to!

Men need to reclaim their masculine pride

Tonight after work I did some searching for the hell of it for "I am Masculine." and" Masculine pride." I did not see a single really positive article nor one single image that was for "pride" in just being a man. Not unless you are a Kinsey 10 Homosexual man that is. I feel no ill will towards those men with not a single tingle towards women in their man parts, but, that is a very narrow demographic of men to be proud. 

There is no reason that you should need to be "gay" to have pride in your actions and deeds as a man. Your orientation is meaningless when it comes to "true pride." True pride does not come from whom you fuck or marry, or date. It comes from being a good person and self-confidence/respect. It does not come from whom you penetrate and their junk. Although for the majority of men that will be women. 

Men as a whole need to be able to be proud of themselves and their manhood. To be a man is a great thing and manhood/manliness/masculinity should be celebrated. We need as much masculinity as we can muster. If we had only femininity and nothing, but, femininity this world would be in chaos. If the world was left in women's hands alone the world would still be in mud-huts is an often quoted quip by Camille Paglia. 

She calls herself a dicident feminist, but, is pretty much an anti-feminist in the modern sense. She is also for equality under the law for all; as is any Men's Rights Advocate as well. She is, however, correct and all you need to do is look at how much of our world depends on men working themselves; sometimes to their very death. In order for civilizations to exists masculinity had to be there and help push forward the world. Led the way as it were. Masculinity was the hunter and femininity the gatherer for a reason. 

Men and women are genetically different, psychologically different, physiologically different and just plain biologically different. Even those Kinsey 10 Homosexual men are still men and not women. They are too different from women as well. Gay men have been celebrating their pride for ages and it is time all men celebrate being a man. Most men are good; the majority in fact. So, most men can be proud of something. Any man that goes to a hard days work and is not a lazy bum should be proud!

We need a sweeping masculine/male pride among the men of the West. Men need to be able to be proud of themselves for all that we do to make this world move. Even when men work with women to do something their contribution should be celebrated and applauded. Men help make this world run and thank goodness for that. The world would be a huge honey pot if everything was all women all the time. The world would be like a horrid Lifetime afternoon movie.

We need a mix of lots of men, manliness and masculinity or chaos would ensue. Female Hypergamy without any masculine psychology to counter and also co-operate with it would make this world insane. We need both and to call masculinity toxic; trying to remove it will destroy this culture if radical feminists get their ways. Masculinity was never toxic and it was always a force for positive, civilizing, cooperation, productivity, competition and merit based progress. Masculinity is something to be proud of!

Walk tall, walk with confidence and poise, with pride in yourself as a good man. 9.5/10 times any man reading this article will be a good man we all are in our own way. Only those few insane and mentally deteriorated men do evil things. Stay strong, stay proud and confident. Keep self-respect and self-love. You are good, men are good, males are good, and masculinity is good! (Manly women of honor you are great too. PS: This site is for men and their self-respect I am not forgetting about you! Fist bumps all around manly women!) 

 

Women in this world need to Woman up and treat their men right! All their men; friends or lovers!

Be a man of Value by being yourself! You are of value and you are enough!

Most men are good; the majority in fact. Yet, so many of us are treated as utlities or scum.

The 50 Shades hate within the Manospehre feeds into the Gynocentric/Feminist narrrative of ignoring male victims.

I have noticed a lot of hate on 50 Shades of Grey within the Manosphere. I am constantly overhearing 50 Shades jokes and talking down the story by women within the Manosphere. As well as from men as well that jump in as their own White Knights to defend the assault on Shades by Anti-Feminist women. I think this is highly mistaken and overlooking one of the most interesting aspects of this story. That this is actually a story that spread like wild fire in which you have a male victim.

Men's Rights Activists whom rant and rave against the story are missing out in my opinion. This is a story about a woman actually helping a man. Where a man is not the one that needs to be the strong one and always invulnerable. Nor is Christian's character disposable and treated like a utility. Not only that, but, you have a woman whom actually shows caring for the mistreatment of a boy. As opposed to trying to wipe it under the rug. Ana wants Christian to admit to his treatment and get help.

Nor is Christian ever portrayed as some monster that is victimizing a poor Ana. Despite what rad fems and even some MRA's seem to think. E.L. James clearly wants you to sympathize with a boy turned man that is a victim. Whom the female lead sees as a victim and can see he is a good man inside. While people rant and rave about how horrible Christian is it is funny I very rarely saw Ana consider him some beastly person. Especially in the movie where not a thing wrong even happens.

Additionally Christian is actually a very good look at how men can react to abuse and attempt to self-help their mental health issues. Instead of continually seeking the proper help and what the results of that could be. In addition; it shows what could happen if along with professional help men whom had bad pasts actually got the sort of treatment and respect by others they need to cope. Well, not everything might have been the best thing to do at least it does not paint the victim as a victimizer. Unlike the haters tend to do.

I am going to come out right now and admit I am a fairly big fan of the Fifty Shades story. I do not think this in anyway emasculates me for enjoying the story. The writing is shit in terms of being written properly I would agree. However, the story itself is a beautiful love story which actually redeems instead of vilifying the main male lead. In a world where one constantly sees men attacked left and right that is a welcome break from the everyday.

I think people need to really learn to take a disinterested view on the matter instead of being haters about the series. Especially those whom might find Christian much more relatable than they would like to admit. In how he has been left alone without help and expected to just "man up" from his very real abuse. With the after effects very apparent and in ones face about the outcome of not taking men's mental health seriously. Thankfully in Fifty Shades all ends happily. Not so in real life where the majority of completed suicides are men and boys.