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This Month is the beginning of Pride Months and I am Proud as well.

The month of June will launch the LGBT Pride Months throughout many places in the Western World. It will be a celebration for many and the parades/dances will be ongoing in many places. This is the celebration of not needing to hide being abnormal or atypical for fear of being hurt by others. However, I too am proud of my own story and my own character as well. It is not just LGBT people that get to be proud of themselves and their being a good person despite misconceptions about their orientation. I think it is time that it is acknowledged that straight does not equal narrow minded and does not equal being homophobic. I think it is time that Straight allies be allowed to celebrate their pride as well in whom they are. 

For this reason I am including some Straight Pride symbols in the side bar for the Summer Months. As a showing of my own pride at being a good man that is into women. This should not be mistaken for the Family Pride Flags used in places like Russia to denounce gays. This is purely about self-interested self-esteem and acknowledgement of my worth as a man still living on this Earth. This is absolutely a rationally selfish endeavor that I am going to fly my Pride on the side of my site all Summer long. Happy Straight (Ally) Pride Fuck Yeah all!       

The most important thing is to just let yourself be you. The unsung song is that you are not alone. We exist!

There is an old saying that sometimes the voice for the voiceless comes from places you least expect. That it is often the unheard masses that need someone to stand up and say I am here. Sometimes that comes from people outside yourself, but, sometimes it also needs to come from within. There are a huge number of people whom are out there right now that are just like myself. I am not alone and neither are you. What am I referring to? I am referring to Straight men that have been with men. I am referring to men whom largely go unnoticed and often are silenced by the so-called tolerant LGBT community.

I am such a man and I am not ashamed. The not-so-secret secret is that a good deal of people spending time in the LGB parts of the LGBT community come out/turn out Straight at the end of their Journey. For them being LG or B is part of their broader Journey in life and not their destination. It is much worse if you have been entrenched in the Pride and LGBT communities for some time. Especially if you were using the L or G and not the B as an identity. For the narrative is that sexuality is fixed and not flexible. That people with a G or L identifier are "born and deterministically so gay." Not possibly fluid or flexible or even possible to change over time.

The truth as documented in the latest works of the American Psychological Association and its working group writers show a different story. In Longitude Studies, not just one, but, hundreds from all over Europe, Canada and the Broader West shows sexual orientation aimed at the same sex is anything, but, fixed, static and "born and deterministically gay." In fact, many people whom asked in their teens and 20's whom identified as same sex attracted (ranging from homosexual/gay to differing levels of bisexual) end up by their 30s and 40s when asked either mostly or completely heterosexual if asked to give an orientation identity or Straight.

The majority of same-sex attraction in humans is bisexual not gayness. It is some level of both which the older you get is more likely to cluster on being into the opposite sex predominantly either with a mostly or completely Straight orientation. Now, this does not mean no one does stay and or is fixed to being 100% gay or lesbian. However, the true number is only about 8% of people in the samples used of people whom had sexual or romantic feelings towards the same sex/gender. Which means that most people with an ability to have these attractions are not gay in the exclusive since at all. Which means the narrative is wrong completely.

This article is not a signal to those religious fundie types to rejoice in their therapies they support either. As this change is completely natural and happens without any sort of "therapy." It is a natural change it is not a "cure" for for a disease of some sort. However, us literal silent majority of people whom go through the same-sex pool are those voiceless masses of men. Those whom have been on this Journey and are arriving at their destination as being what it is. It is what it is. Just let it be. Admit it, embrace it, do not be ashamed of it. Straight is great. Mostly Straight is awesome! Do not feel shamed into being part of the "community" simply because of your past sexual behavior.




http://dc.law.utah.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1023&context=scholarship

I am not ashamed to have loved and slept with men.. I refuse to be ashamed of how into women I am.

In honor of this being Pride Month my views on Pride continues...

This is Pride month in many places and also Pride week here in Charlottetown. I did a recent article mentioning my views on the organized Pride movement which included the parades. However, this might have made one think that I think someone having personal pride is a bad thing. However, that would be wrong. What I have issues with is the idea of a collectivized pride based on nothing more than some single character trait. Especially given the narrative of Pride that your orientation being some innate thing. Which means you did nothing to earn being proud if it is simply based on an innate characteristics. 

I think individual people whom are gay, bisexual can have personal pride, but, that is not based only on ones sexual orientation, but, the content of ones character. Which means that whether or not you should be proud remains largely on your character as a person. So, just being gay, bisexual or whatever is not an accomplishment in itself. The issue with the collectivized Pride movement is that it assumes Gay equals good and worthy of pride over being based on ones character,. In fact, the toxic world of Pride and LGBTQ+  which exists shows the sort of character of the organized Pride. 

I do know gays and bisexuals that like me swear off the Pride movement and the LGBTQ+ nonsense altogether. I am not the only person that has issues with the concept of Pride as it exists at this time. Myself, I do not plan on doing anything for nor with Pride this year. Even though I support the individual rights of people I still want nothing to do with it. In fact, as I mentioned previously I have not had anything to do with Pride in quite sometime. However, I do think that there is a glaring hypocrisy with the whole Pride month and week. The whole movement or idea in general really. 

The hypocrisy I mean is that gays and bisexuals seem to be able to have Pride, but, heterosexuals and/or mostly heterosexuals or bisexuals that just prefer the opposite to the same are left out in the cold. There is s serious blindness to the fact if there can be Gay pride then heterosexuals and hetero-leaning people can have their own personal Hetero or Straight pride. I do have personal pride because I am a good man. I am a heterosexual male with pride in being a good man whom is into women. I have Straight Pride, but, based on being a good man that is straight and not because I am straight period. I refuse to cower and be small in the world because I ended up a 30 year old heterosexual male. 

Since Pride should be based on individual character and being a good person all heterosexuals that have good character should be able to be proud to be such a good person. Straight Pride does not mean hating on gay or bisexual people. It is properly speaking something all Straight people of good character can and should have in themselves. In the same vein gays and bisexuals that have good character and are accomplishing something in life to be proud of can have their own sense of personal pride. However, that pride does not equally get to denounce others orientations and act like fascist or Maoist extremists. Getting to trash the broader world using terms like heteronormative and pushing bullshit. 

The world is mostly heterosexual in nature or at least bisexual in nature. It is a mammalian norm due to it being how our species survives and reproduces. Penis is crafted by Mother Nature to go into vagina that is the natural norm. Males getting hard over females and females getting lubricated over males. Heterosexuality is not the normal due to "hatred of gays." It has the norm due to the Tyranny called nature and how our species evolved to keep living. This does not mean homosexuals or homosexual activity is bad or immoral or anything. It does not justify actual bigotry or religious hatred of homosexuals. It just means that it is not the overall norm for our species. Most homosexual activity exists in most species in a bisexual manor. As it does as well in ours, but, that does not mean exclusive homosexuals need to change or need "cured." 

However, that also means that by denouncing "heteronormativity" Pride groups are in fact denouncing the vary process by which our species keeps living. As well as the process by which they themselves came into existence. To denounce that there should be pride in heterosexuals for being good men and women is antithetical to the existence of pride on a personal level at all. It makes Pride a worship of a collective group and a hive mind that does not exist. I support us heterosexuals, us straight people having personal pride and an abundance of it and self-love for being good people. Good people should be proud and evil/vile people should not have pride. Positive should be proud and negative people have nothing to be proud of one could also say. 

Pride is an achievement of being a good person and not something that falls out of the sky like rain drops. Pride is a virtue and so is self-esteem, but, pride does not just jump into your lap. Much like respect actual pride is earned by matter of your virtue as a person and your accomplishments of character. It is not just something you have out of nowhere. Most LGBTQ+ people whom support Pride and attend Pride events have not really thought of what pride means epistemologically. Just being born is not enough to have Pride and this is why I do not support "Pride" organizations. You earn pride, you earn respect it is not benevolence. There is a difference between having a benevolent outlook at others and respecting them. 

  

What is happening in Chechnya is disgusting and in defense of the Gays.

Lately, I have been having quite the outburst of Straight Male Pride on this blog. In doing so it could be misconstrued that I am somehow not in favor as well of gay lifestyles. After all the Cultural Warriors would have you think if someone has straight pride they must be also anti-gay somehow as well. To top it off for some I have talked at length about the fluidity of human sexual orientation which once again will set off alarms to some people.

Well, I am not against Gays in anyway I just happen to not be one. I defend the right of all adults to have whatever sort of consensual relations they wish to have irregardless of their gender/sex. So, I defend such lives even though I do have issues with the actual LGBT community. Recently it has come to my attention that Chechnya has built Concentration Camps for gay men to be tortured and captured. This is absolutely intolerable and it is the sort of thing GBLT folk should be complaining about.

This is something where I can agree with the broader LGBT community that this needs to be stopped. The question is how do we stop such things? Are we going to actually use the Military or contracted Mercenaries outsourced to take out the facility runners? What all is the West to do exactly? I wish I know after all we cannot go to war over it. I mean we could, but, what would the outcome be? Would it be beneficial or lead to things being even worse? Part of me the Warrior Spirit if you will wants to gather the troops and/or planes and fuck them up big time. However, where would that lead?

I seriously do not know what the West can do about this? Well, I sure know what we did during the last Holocaust. We fucking squashed the creators of those camps and eliminated the threat to the people being put into the camps. We should ideally rid this Cancer off the planet, How can we do that without having unwanted consequences? I wish I knew. I know I want to go all out on the entire population involved in this concentration camp plan. Eliminating all of them and turning them into plant food where they will be of more use to existence. My protector of my manhood is just itching to rid this vermin from the world. The fact they are gays matters not straight camps would be just as bad.