Gender is not a spectrum it is a biological reality and it is absolutely a binary. Sexuality is a scale for most non-exclusively-heterosexual animals.

I have not written anything on sexuality for a while nor on gender itself either. However, I ran across some videos on gender, gender identity, sexuality and sex on Youtube. Some of which seemed like I was in fairy land while others were very good. So, it came to mind to clarify some important biological truths about our species of which some will surely balk at. Let us begin with gender AKA sex of the human being.

Yes, gender and sex ARE biologically one and the same thing. If you are born with a penis 9.999999 times out of 10 you will grow up with no issues in your brain about identifying as a male. The same goes for being born with a vagina and identifying as a female. Why? Not due to social conditioning as social Justice nuts and radical feminists would claim. Due to the fact that your brain is either male or female just like your body absent being faced with the mental illness/ medical condition known as Gender Identity Dysphoria (previously known as Gender Identity Disorder prior to the latest addition of the DSM.) Transsexualism or Transgender folks have a form of dysphoria due to one major fuck up in their Mother's Womb or possibly other external factors.

999999999.999% of men have a perfectly ordinary male brain and the same for women with female brains. There is no "fuck up in coding" if you will due to other factors and they have the normal brain that their hormones and chromosomes under normal circumstances of child birth and womb experience produces, The norm for a properly produced offspring in animals of our species is an animal that has by the time puberty is over a full understanding and acceptance of their "gender identity" and sex which are both aligned. This includes in their sexual desires. Which is why most people have an attraction to the opposite sex including people with attraction to the same sex. It is why most non-exclusively heterosexual human animals within our species is in fact on a scale of bisexual and not exclusively homosexual in nature.

The existence of gays and lesbians does not in anyway support the idea of ones sex and gender being different. Far from it as the only difference between a gay and non-gay is how pushed towards one side of the scale of human sexuality you actually are. I am not here arguing as some do that all people are bisexual far from it. In fact, the majority and natural norm of our species is exclusive opposite attraction. If someone is gay and non-conforming that does not make them a third or fourth gender or sex. It makes them a person whom for whatever reason has not developed in the usual way that most people of their gender do. For numerous reasons ranging from pre-birth experience to possibly feeling they need to be non-conforming to conform to their orientation and be accepted by others. Or even not being allowed to develop in the natural way they would have without outside interference.

Someone for whatever reason it is being non-conforming does not make them any less male or female, any less a man or a woman. It does not make Gender a Spectrum in anyway shape or form. On the contrary it shows gender is a binary and that one will exist somewhere on that binary. An androgynous person is someone whom has attributes of the opposite side of the norm of the binary one is normally on not a sign there is no binary. An effeminate person is feminine whether a man or women. A masculine person is masculine whether a man or a woman. There is only the two and being either completely on one side or showing traits of the opposite side of the same binary. This is because there is only two genders which correlate with the two sexes. Most men/human males are masculine most of the time. Most women/human females are feminine most of the time.

What is a scale or spectrum if you will is human sexuality and that is something that most people will not talk about. Most people whom are not-exclusively heterosexual can be found on a scale, a grid or a spectrum. Some people are on the low end like 2 or 2.5 using a Kinsey Scale for example. Some are in middle right down the line and others are on the far end like 5 or 6. If you are a complete homosexual or gay/lesbian you are on the 6. That is someone whom never ever would be interested in the opposite sex ever. If you are a Mostly-Heterosexual bisexual or a Mostly Straight person you are on the opposite end being a 1, 2 or 2.5. With the stereotypical bisexual with no preference whatsoever being dead center with a 3 or middle of the scale without numbers. Someone whom is more into the same than the opposite, but, still has some opposite attraction would be like a 4 and so on.

There is also a mistake that just because there is a plethora of mental if you will Archetypes that a masculine or feminine brain can take up in life it means it is not masculine nor feminine. This is also a big mistake. There is lots of molds that a man can fit and still not be effete or anything. There is also a number of molds a woman can take and still not be masculine or butch. None of these molds means that either person is not masculine or feminine. That there is no binary and that said person does not fit on one side or the other of the binary. Much like the fact that most people even with a bisexual orientation fall somewhere to one side with only certain people being dead center with no preferences at all. The binary is real and it is based on genetics, brain formation and chromosomes. For example; not all men are fixing motors right now, but, they are also not usually wearing Tutus either.

I for example am a masculine man, but, I am not a football jock. I would still be considered if one were to look at me and tick little boxes all man. I tend for example to not be over emotional when I am in a normal mood. I tend to be more stoic the older I get. I have no issues as I get older taking the lead and making decisions. Some of which have been big ones, but, I have had to make them anyways. I have become more assertive and Alpha like if you will the older I have gotten. The fact that I have a pink tie in my collection does not all of a sudden cancel that out about me. This is because there are many manly and masculine archetypes that all kinds of different, but, still completely masculine men fit into. I would argue the last thing a truly Grab Your Balls Man cares about is what people think of him.

This is a sort of diversion, but, the point is the binary is real and all people for the most part fit into it somewhere and somehow. There are only 2 genders and there are only 2 sexes. There is a scale of orientation, but, people tend to cluster more leaning one side or the other mostly. With most people leaning more towards the ending up in relationships with the opposite side. This is just a fact of nature and Mother Nature is a tyranny not a constitutionally limited governing system. People need to stop with all this non-Binary more than 2 genders stuff. Just because you might differ in how you express yourself does not make you someone whom is not the biology that makes up your very DNA. Nor does it mean you actually have Gender Dysphoria unless you have been officially diagnosed as such by a trained medical professional.