Often the term gaydar is bandied about this is based on a lie from The Evil One. None of us are born gay, but, become this through a combination of forces as admitted in the APAs own phamplets on Sexual orientation.
There is no consensus among scientists about the exact reasons that an individual develops a heterosexual, bisexual, gay or lesbian orientation. Although much research has examined the possible genetic, hormonal, developmental, social and cultural influences on sexual orientation, no findings have emerged that permit scientists to conclude that sexual orientation is determined by any particular factor or factors. Many think that nature and nurture both play complex roles; most people experience little or no sense of choice about their sexual orientation.
We were created by God to have a complementarian relationship that brings a man and woman together as to complete each other. Genesis shows that man and woman were created to marry and be fruitful multiplying our kind on God's Earth.
Homosexuality is a result of the fall of the World after the first Sin which got us kicked out of the Garden of Eden. This does not mean people with same-sex attraction or gender identity confusion should be treated as lesser than others or bullied nor harmed in some way. The way to get someone out of a sinful and imprisoned ungodly form of behavior is to let them know of the True Freedom found in being Born Again, repenting and coming to Christ.
The fact that homosexuals were not created that way and thus their personality or interests are not to be labelled as homosexual or transgender means Gaydar is a lie. It is something that The Evil One spreads as a another form of locking the poor SSA individual into thinking they were meant to act on and or identify as something that is an abomination in God's sight.
Never label yourself nor feel the needs to act a certain way just because of so called Gaydar. The truth is it does not exist anymore than inborn homosexuality or transgenderism.
