The oddest moment in a game show ever (great example of how to deal with someones assumptions)

I found a very interesting new game show on YouTube called Distraction from the early 2000's. It is all about distracting contestants while they answer questions usually in very humiliating ways. Consider it like a UK version of a take on the sort of thing in Fear Factor mixed in with questions. I was quite a ways into the second season when I came across an interesting scenario I was not expecting.

Out of nowhere the host assumed that someone named Vee which looked more like an RSD trainer was gay. RSD means Real Social Dynamics a PUA group whom has some controversy among some of its people. This person reminded me more of them and their peacocking ideas about dress than gay. I am not sure if it was because he was wearing a dollar sign gold necklace. That might have been it that made me think more of a club going fellow over a gay man.

Yet, for some reason this person whom looked nothing like the gay stereotype to me was called out as being gay. He starts out by saying it was quite a feet that this fellow slept with 50 people over the course of the last year. Then out of nowhere he said that was a lot of cock. As a response to this Vee said "whom said anything about cock?" Which is an appropriate response to such an out of the blue assumption. Then he went onto simply say he was not gay. The host asked if he was heterosexual and he said, "I am." He then ignored all the following jokes at his expense. He just went on with playing the game.

The crazy response to his affirmative on his heterosexuality was to be told that he was setting off alarms. Despite him not really showing off any of the stereotypical gaydar things he said it was going off. I am still not sure what the fuck he was on that he thought this PUA-ish looking peacocker was a poof. I can sometimes see with the stereotypes that exist why someone whom has "gaydar" might mistake someone for gay, but, not this fellow. Yet, Vee just stood there and let it all fall off his shoulders. Which is the best way to deal with such a misunderstanding.

Other peoples assumptions about ones identity based on BS do not matter. It is not your problem as the person whom is misunderstood and assumed about. The problem belongs to the person making the assumption about you. One should never let other peoples assumptions control their life. People need to live for themselves and their values. They do not need to nor should they live for what ignorant neanderthals think of them. If you are not what someone assumes it is not your problem. The person should not be assuming the things to begin with. It is a case of failed paternicity and everything is eh OK.